Hello all! It has taken me a long time, but I knew that one day I would be able
<br/>to post my story here. So, here it goes. Our journey started out by finding
<br/>out one of my tubes was blocked and that I have PCOS. We began with the Pacific
<br/>Fertility Center in San Francisco where after a few consultations, one of the
<br/>IVF Dr.'s said to us "once you get over the financial part of this process, the
<br/>IVF is no big deal" With that one comment, my husband and I took our business
<br/>elsewhere. Why would I want to spend around $50,000 with a facility that has
<br/>lost sight of what they are doing? For us, it was(and still is) the biggest
<br/>deal of our lives. We then moved onto Dr. Zouves and he began all testing
<br/>including immonology. He found out that I had high NK's, high TH1/TH2, and
<br/>blood clotting disease. He put me on his usual protocol- Humira, Heparin, etc.
<br/>We did our first IVF cycle in Nov. of 2009. We trasferred 2 embryos. We got a
<br/>chemical pregnancy. We decided to do another fresh round of IVF. In the mean
<br/>time, more Humira, Heparin, etc. We did our 2nd IVF cycle in Feb. 2010 and we
<br/>transferred 3 embryos. At our ultrasound, we were stunned to find out that all
<br/>3 of them took! Dr. Zouves then suggested to us that reduce one due to the
<br/>risks involved. We did so much research and received a lot of medical advice on
<br/>this and we decided to move forward with the reduction. We did this at 12
<br/>weeks. Then at one of my check ups at 16 weeks, the Dr. could not hear one of
<br/>the heartbeats and we found out we lost the 2nd baby. Then at 22 weeks, I went
<br/>into labor and lost the last baby of the 3. It was the most heartwrenching,
<br/>emotionally traumatizing thing I have ever went through. We were devastated.
<br/>Not only emotionally, but financially as well. Thank goodness I have a strong
<br/>and supportive husband and we worked through that time. After some time, we
<br/>contacted Dr. Zouves again to once again, start all over. We started with the
<br/>Humira and Heparin all over again. However, this time, the Humira would not
<br/>bring down my TH1/TH2 levels. At this point, Dr. Zouves suggested we move onto
<br/>surrogacy. I was in shock and was not willing to take this for an answer. I
<br/>had just been pregnant and he wanted me to turn to surrogacy! Instead, we moved
<br/>onto the AEB center where we spent the next 6 months with trips to Mexico doing
<br/>LIT, IVIG, etc. Interestingly enough, without trying, I got pregnant naturally,
<br/>but miscarried at 6 weeks. This was crazy to find out that my body could do it
<br/>on it's own. After trying some more naturally, in January of 2012, we decided to
<br/>move onto Dr. Braverman as this was our last effort before moving onto
<br/>surrogacy. He went over our records and had some interesting insights on my
<br/>case and history. He had us do the HLA matching tests (which is not covered by
<br/>my insurance and will end up costing us almost $3000). But we had spent almost
<br/>$100,000 so far, what is a little more money towards the effort. He put me on
<br/>Neupogen and Lovenox and some supplements and that was it. We also researched
<br/>for a new IVF Dr. and chose Dr. Schmidt from NOVA IVF in Mountain View Ca. We
<br/>did another fresh cycle in June of 2012, transferred 2, and one of them took! I
<br/>stopped the Neupogen at 11 weeks and stopped the Lovenox at 16 weeks. I am
<br/>being watched by 2 high risk Dr.'s and my OB. I am now 32 weeks pregnant and am
<br/>due March 19th, 2013!
<br/>There is much much more to this story, but I just wanted to give everyone the
<br/>high lights of the kind of journey that my husband and I have been on for the
<br/>last 3 1/2 years. I am so grateful that I did not listen to not only Dr.
<br/>Zouves, but to so many other Dr.'s along the way. I chose to listen to my gut
<br/>instinct and not to give up. Believe me when I say, I know how hard this road
<br/>is, and it is not for everyone. There are many issues with Dr.'s, their egos,
<br/>their office staff, their bedside manner, and their pricing. But for us, at the
<br/>end of the day, we had to be comfortable with each and every decision that we
<br/>made together. If you don't feel comfortable with a one Dr., or had a bad
<br/>experience with one, then move on. This is one great thing about not having
<br/>socialized medicine in this country- you have choices.
<br/>I do have to say thank you to everyone on this board for all of the support and
<br/>knowledge. It certainly supports the fact that we are not alone, we are not the
<br/>only ones, and there are options.
<br/>If anyone has any questions at all, feel free to contact me on the board or
<br/>privately.
<br/>Hopefully all will go smoothly and I will post again after I deliver!
<br/>Keep strong!
<br/>Hillarie
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